Teri’s interest with astrology lies with helping people see how following a practice of intention and self-awareness leads to a fuller relationship with Mystery. Astrology is a wonderful tool for this. Her weekly column orients readers to the seasonal energy of each month’s Sun sign in order to set magical/mindful intention for the lunar month beginning at the New Moon.
Each week Teri will write about the unfolding energies that support and challenge our intentions. The ebb and flow of the lunar cycle resides deep in our souls. Through following the phases of the Moon, we remember the natural cycles that guide us.
Finding a suitable partner is difficult for anyone. With more Pagans saying finding a partner who shares their values, if not their religion, the search for a match is even more difficult. How to overcome that challenge? Attend one of the large gatherings of Pagans at festivals such as Pagan Spirit Gathering (PSG). At this year’s PSG attendees were invited to a single’s meet and greet, attend the wedding of a couple who met at last year’s PSG, and wish Circle Sanctuary‘s Rev. Selena Fox and Dr. Dennis Carpenter, who met and later married at PSG, a happy 27th wedding anniversary.
Rev. Fox says that from the very beginning of PSG, straight and same sex couples have met, and married or handfasted, at the festival. “I think the courting dimensions of attending festivals is something quite old and never goes out of style. I’m happy for all the good relations that have come out of PSG,” said Rev. Fox. What is changing are the increasing numbers of Pagans who attend festivals with the express purpose of finding Pagan, and not just Pagan friendly, mate. Yet just like in the mundane world, sometimes love finds you when you aren’t looking for it.
Wedding Bells
Although Brandon Mullikin and Nikki Pazdra didn’t attend PSG to find a mate, they met at last year’s festival and were handfasted at PSG 2013 on Tuesday night. Mullikin said he noticed Ms. Pazdra right away, “I happened to see her walking around and I couldn’t help myself but to find out where she camped and I had to creep by every now and then.”
While Millikin was making up excuses to walk by her camp, Pazdra was doing the same thing, “It’d be alot easier to go a certain way to the shower house, but I’d take the long way so I could pass by his tent.” Both were too shy to introduce themselves to the other so friends and family intervened. “We didn’t talk until my sister introduced us because she was friends with [Pazdra’s] friend,” said Millikin. From that point, the two were inseparable.
Then PSG ended and Millikin went back to Gatlinburg, Tennessee and Pazdra went back to Chicago, Illinois. They kept in touch through Facebook, Skype, and phone. A few months after the end of the festival, Pazdra visited Millikin in Gatlinburg for a few weeks. A month after that the couple moved to Nashville and bought a home together.
The couple decided to take the next step in their relationship by getting handfasted where it all began, at Pagan Spirit Gathering. And where Millikin’s father, Danny, was handfasted the year before to Rebecca Hubbard. Both handfastings were officiated by Rev. Selena Fox, of Circle Sanctuary. Circle Sanctuary hosts Pagan Spirit Gathering.
Single Pagan Seeking Same For Relationship
“I want to find more people like me, single and Pagan,” said James, who attended the Singles Meet & Greet Tuesday afternoon at PSG. James said it’s hard to meet single Pagan women where he lives, which is rural. It was his first time at an event like this and he felt optimistic about being able to meet someone compatible.
His optimism was not misplaced. There were over 40 Pagans at the singles event, almost evenly split between males and females*. Some were looking for someone of the opposite sex, some were looking for same sex relationships, while still others were open to anything. All attendees PNC was able to speak with said they were looking for a relationship that had the potential to lead to marriage. Most said it was very important to them that a prospective spouse be Pagan.
The meet & greet’s organizer, Steffanie, encouraged individuals to mingle by playing a game called Human Bingo. Each attendee got a card and they had to find people who matched the notes in the squares. “Have you ever walked a cat on a leash?” asked one single Pagan. “No. Are you a glamper?” he responded back.
While most attendees were busily engaged with the game, and with each other, a few stood uncomfortably on the outskirts of the group. “I’m not good with groups. I can’t do this,” said one male in his early 20’s. Soon Steffanie spotted him and helped him mingle back in with the group.
Lisa, who hails from south Texas, said that while there’s an active Druid community where she lives, it’s mainly made up of married couples and families. “I’m hoping to meet someone at PSG. I live in a really, I live in a dating desert so I’ve come to the fountain to drink.” After fifteen minutes of the game she was less optimistic about meeting someone during the meet and greet, but was looking forward to the more informal nightly singles get togethers.
PSG has hosted singles events over the past 33 years, but Rev. Selena Fox noted there is a rising interest in them, “We don’t have them every year but there’s been more of a request to have some times where people can actually see who is single. I think they’re a great idea and anyone that is interested in proposing other kinds of ways to connect – wonderful!”
To help singles find each other in a festival of over 1000 attendees, singles were given bright green bracelets that said I’m single, Let’s Mingle. Organizers of the event also used social media as a way for singles to get to know one another before PSG started. “I felt more comfortable coming [to the meet & greet] because I had already met a few of the people on the singles event page,” said Willow.
“I think that social media provides a way of being able to make some connections, but there really isn’t a good substitute to meeting someone face to face,” said Rev. Fox. She went on to say, “If you’re at a Pagan festival that has emphasis on community and has shared values that helps with a filtering process in bringing people together that have some commonalities already.”
“Obviously here it’s great because automatically if your here you have most of the values that I treasure and cherish,” said Ladi, who had also been part of last year’s PSG Single’s Meet and Greet. He said he made great friendships last year and looked forward to doing the same this year. He was realistic about forming a relationship at a festival, “A relationship has to be worked towards. Anything worth doing does take time and work.”
Handfasting at the Pond
Millikin and Pazdra’s handfasting took place near the pond and was open to all PSG attendees. The ceremony had a distinctive Celtic flair and was filled with music, which makes sense as Millikin is part of the band Tuatha Dea.
The newly handfasted couple walks the circle.
Father and Step-Mother of the groom look on.
Twin Cities band Murphey’s Midnight Rounders performed a song they wrote especially for the event. “That song was beautiful,” said one tearful guest. “I want that at my handfasting,” she went on to say, holding her girlfriend’s hand tight.
Editor’s note: video is blurred to protect the identity of children playing in the background.
As for our Pagan singles, how did they make out at this year’s PSG? At least two attendees of the Singles Meet & Greet felt they had met someone they want to start a relationship with. “We’ve already made plans to visit each other next month,”said Willow. “Who knows, perhaps Selena will be handfasting us next year.”
A local domestic rabbit needs a new home. Can you help?
Nora, a Plymouth area rabbit, needs a new home. – photo used with permission of Sheryl Burns
Roads have opened and power is restored after the storms that led to an up to a 96 hour blackout in the east and west Twin Cities Metro. As flood warnings appear daily, those with severe damage to their homes scramble to house their families and pets.
Some pets are more difficult to place than others. Such is this case with Nora, a 20 pound Flemish Giant rabbit.
Sheryl Burns, Plymouth resident and member of Standing Stones coven, is looking for someone to adopt Nora. A large tree fell on the Burns residence, forcing the family to relocate for an estimated 4-6 months.
The Burns family home sustained significant damage from a fallen tree. — photo used with permission of Sheryl Burns
Burns with her pet rabbit Nora – photo used with permission of Sheryl Burns
The family received assistance from family, neighbors and coven but still have significant decisions to make during the coming cleanup. In the meantime, they need to find a safe place for their pets, including Nora.
Nora is going on two years old and is 75% litter box trained. She bathes well, but only cuddles on her own terms. She is quite fond of plastic and cords, along with more safely edible objects such as apples, carrots, lettuce and rabbit pellets. She has always been an indoor pet; she has only visited a backyard under supervision. Nora also has experience cohabitating with cats. She has also not been spayed. Burns can supply her kennel and all remaining food.
If you wish to give this rabbit sanctuary, please contact Burns at gosmr7@yahoo.com.
Pagan Spirit Gathering (PSG), one of the oldest Pagan camping festivals in the US, may have surpassed last year’s record breaking attendance. Final numbers are not yet available, but preliminary figures set attendance at 1070 registered guests. The festival was a combination of old and new. Same location, Stonehouse Farm in Illinois, but with new owners. Many familiar faces, but unofficial estimates put first time attendees at 30% of total attendance. There are also some new trends that appear to be emerging within the Pagan community that are very old trends in mainstream society.
In the coming week, the Pagan Newswire Collective is covering the old and the new at PSG in our PSG Report series. Some of the upcoming articles include:
An interview with the new owners of Stonehouse Farm and what’s in store for the future.
How PSG is a tribe of tribes.
Marty the Drama Llama and how Psyche’s Grotto helps PSG attendees deal with life and festival drama.
Looking for love (and marriage) at Pagan festivals.
A warrior blessing ritual.
An exploration of how it may be Pagans, and not conservative Christians, who are the banner bearers for traditional family values.
PSG 2013 – an overview in short takes
Photo by Edmund Zebrowski
The weather was almost the reverse of 2011. This year we had sunny, 80 degree days at the start of the festival and rain, flooding, and muck at the end. Both years were an improvement on 2012 where the extreme heat caused many campers to seek medical attention and made sleep difficult. However, just like in 2011, there were problems caused by the Friday afternoon and Saturday morning storms. Tents collapsed or were flooded. Some not only made the most of it, they turned it into a party, complete with floating through flooded areas of camp and mud wrestling.
To counter the sadness of familiar and long time PSG attendees not able to make the festival this year, there were many new faces at PSG this year. The virgin bell,which is rung when a first time attendee enters the gate to the campground, seemed to never stop ringing. It’s not unusual to have over 25% of attendees be PSG virgins, but this year the number appeared higher than normal. Conversely, the informal camps that spring up at PSG, with people camping as a group and coming up with names (and even t-shirts) for their group also appeared to be more numerous.
First time PSG Attendee Jimmy rings the virgin bell. Photo by Starr.
While you can always count on gnomes and fairies to adorn Pagan campsites, this year the gnomes took over. I blame a tenor named Chris. There was Gnome Camp, where people devoted to gnomes pitched their tents. There were more gnome decorations. There was a gnome contest to be played amongst the merchant booths. And there were roaming gnomes which would randomly show up in your camp. One even made it into Media Camp on morning.
A roaming gnome sits among PNC’s important reporting tools.
Food and drink have always had a place at Pagan events, but this year was up a notch. Filet mignon with demi glaze and infused simple syrups were on the menu at several campsites. Not only was the food more upscale, the campsites themselves were all about glamping (glamorous camping). A Pagan ethic of being extremely eco-conscious and simply was still evident, but the trend towards providing more elegant and comfortable hospitality was more prominent. This mirrors the trend in the mainstream, but perhaps this is also a sign of greater religious diversity in the Pagan community as hospitality ethics become as important as eco and feminism ethics and influences.
The theme of this year’s PSG was Connections, but the organizers may not have had social media in mind when they came up with it. PSGers were online more this year than previous years. They posted photos, videos, updated their statuses, and made plans to meet for lunch or arrange to pass of child care duties while enjoying the festival. Workshop handouts were made available electronically and there was even a workshop for technomages called “There’s an app for that.” Use of technology was, for the most part, very unobtrusive out of respect for those trying to unplug, but expect the use of social media during festivals to increase, not decrease.
Rainbow Camp, a group comprised of GLBT Pagans and their straight allies, brought back the Rainbow Ritual. The ritual was attended by over 30 Pagans and one attendee said it was “The most powerful and moving ritual I’ve ever attended. I don’t often get to interact with gay Pagans as I live in a rural area. I was just touched.” The ritual, which was done in drag, and the very visible and active presence of Rainbow Camp was welcome after several years of gender controversy at festivals and conferences.
Not only was PSG celebrating the summer solstice, but a super moon also made a magical appearance. A super moon is a full moon which occurs with the moon at or near (perigee) its closest approach to Earth in a given orbit. The main ritual, hosted on the last Saturday evening of the festival, was graced by the light of the super moon.
This year’s PSG had many of the things you expect from a Pagan festival. There was all night drumming around the bonfire, rituals, musical performances, and more workshops than a person could ever hope to attend – even if they cloned themselves 7 times over. Hugs, cries of “welcome home” as people entered, and lots of really well made mead. Pagan festivals are an important part of the Pagan experience and they allow you to not only come together to worship communally and to enjoy being fully Pagan for a few days, they allow you to see where Paganism is heading and what challenges we face and offer an opportunity to be part of guiding and shaping the future of our diverse communities. PNC would like to thank all those at this year’s Pagan Spirit Gathering who allowed us to interview and photograph them so our history in the making can be recorded and not lost.
Want to help with storm cleanup? Check on your elderly neighbors and call 311 about any storm damage causing road blocks, say City of Minneapolis officials.
A series of storms over the Twin Cities metro and Western Wisconsin led to a weekend-long blackout for most of Minneapolis. According to Xcel’s public website and reports on KARE 11, full service may not be restored to the total area before Wednesday, June 26. While the full casualties are at present unknown, this storm, nicknamed #mnstorm on social media, has already led to the loss of home for a few unlucky area residents.
In addition to a blackout that affects more than half a million area residents, locals also faced disruptions of Internet service (not as serious) and travel (very serious.)
photo use granted by permission of John Moses
Residents posting to social media via Twitter and Facebook report the blackout beginning at around 8 pm on June 21st, followed immediately by flash floods that blocked traffic in areas of north and Northeast Minneapolis. By 6 am on Monday, June 24th, Xcel reported a total area of 616,500 customers with service disrupted by the storm. Xcel practiced transparency with their restoration efforts, stating on their website that, “Repairs are then prioritized based on what will restore power to the largest number of customers most quickly.” They also prioritized by safety – areas where the most people risked electrocution, followed by hospitals and emergency services.
Areas affected included the East and West Metro and parts of western Wisconsin. According to reports on social media, Saint Paul went unaffected. As of the June 24th Xcel update, Xcel hopes to restore power to all customers by noon on Wednesday. The majority of the remaining customers are located in the west metro. The Twin Cities remains under flood watch.
Flash flood warnings on Solstice came paired with wind speeds up to 41 mph (66 km) and wind gusts up to 69 mph (112 km.) Total precipitation for that month came to 6.41 inches, with the average maximum in June normally coming to 2.98 inches average. ** (reporter note: I suspect I am seriously misreading this weather chart. Any more clear interpretations are very welcome.) In Northeast Minneapolis, a flash flood blocked off Central Avenue Northeast around 8:15 pm. Later rising water from overflowing storm drains caused a water main to burst on Stinson Ave NE, forcing a 20 hour blockade of the street where it crosses Lowry.
Thousands of homes, businesses and services were disrupted over the weekend with thousands still awaiting restoration of power.
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photos in slideshow taken by Diana Rajchel
While some members of the Pagan community celebrated at Pagan Spirit Gathering in Illinois, others remained in city for summer solstice to experience the floods and blackouts firsthand.
Samantha Bitner was attending a ritual at Uptown Metaphysical shop Eye of Horus when the storm came down. “I was at circle with a group I’ve never circled with before. They asked a Goddess and a Dragon to “let the sky open up” or something to that effect. Not too long after….” Both Bitner and Northeast neighborhood resident Michael Janssen report the power failure as starting at 8 pm.
Lisa Spiral Besnett, a resident of Plymouth and hostess of the Priestess Show on Blogtalk radio had a tree split in half blocking her driveway and a near miss in front of her house. She counts herself as more fortunate than other area locals who face significant property loss from fallen trees. In her case, HearthStone coven and her neighbors helped her clean up the property and hook up diesel generators. She posted to her Facebook page that her power came back on on 8:00 pm Monday the 24th.
Jane Hansen, partner in Eye of Horus, posted to her own Facebook page that power for the shop returned on Sunday afternoon. While Hansen noted lost sales over the weekend, she says that she and Thraicie Hawkner took the blackout as an opportunity to rearrange their shop. “We were dark from approximately Friday 8:00pm to Sunday 4:30pm. The front half of the store shifted a lot. We had planned on creating more of an oils service counter with storage space for our Spiritual Oils line, so we did that, but we also expanded our main service counter all they way down to the front of the store. Basically, smoothing out the energy flow, wherever we can.” The new layout, according to Hansen, is subtle but allows for a counter for oil sales and an improved display for local artists Paul Rucker, Beth Hansen-Buth and others.
Minneapolis Mayor R.T. Rybak commented to Minnesota Public Radio that this recent blackout and two recent tornadoes raise some concerns for him. “Certainly one is where and when or how we could bury more of these wires, so we don’t have this erratic situation that the climate may be putting us into.”
The city of Minneapolis has posted instructions for removal of tree debris and published a list of tree service contractors. The city also urges its citizens to check on their neighbors, especially those in their 80s and 90s, as well as to practice food safety with the high number of non-functioning refrigerators over the weekend.
Teri’s interest with astrology lies with helping people see how following a practice of intention and self-awareness leads to a fuller relationship with Mystery. Astrology is a wonderful tool for this. Her weekly column orients readers to the seasonal energy of
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