Tomorrow is November 22, 2012, Thanksgiving Day. Per tradition, it is considered a time to gather, feast, and to express gratitude. For those who watch television or receive store emails, it is the start of the mega-shopping fest season: Black Friday and now Black Thursday. It seemed appropriate to ask some local pagans how they plan to celebrate and how they feel about the holiday in general. Is it just a shopping holiday, a time to over-consume food or is it the end of a harvest season, a time of family, and a mulit-cultural, multi-religious holiday?
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What do you plan to do for this Thanksgiving? How do you think of Thanksgiving?
Jill: I think of it as kind of a family holiday, even though one half of my family prays and one half doesn’t. One half is Christian and one-half is Atheist; I’m pagan and it’s awkward. I enjoy it we get together as a family. I hardly ever see my family because they work so much. I’m very thankful. Because it’s Thanksgiving, I like to think of it as a moment to reflect upon how how I am thankful. Even though I have had a lot of tough times in my life, I still have my family. I’m thankful for them. Even though my family fights sometimes, it’s still nice being able to get together with them and we all work it out eventually.
Liz at Magus Books: “We have a Charlie Brown Thanksgiving in our household: jelly beans, toast, straight pretzels, popcorn, and a sundae. I’m not kidding. Given that as an American holiday, folks sit down, Thanksgiving is truly multi-cultural.
Thracie at Eye of Horus: I spend time at my mother’s with turkey and mashed potatoes.
Tamara: I come from a nice sized family that still gets together every holiday. Before my Grandmother passed away, holidays were reorganized so that every adult with a house large enough to squeeze in our extended family took a turn hosting a holiday. This ensured that many of us learned how to carry on the traditions that wove us together and the future of our family was therefore invested broadly rather than around one central matriarch. I think this has helped us maintain a cohesive family. Our gatherings are therefore decentralized, still have firm structure and we maintain a rhythm that keeps us visiting each others homes. It makes for a good weave.
Every other Thanksgiving is at our house and has been for 16 years now. This Thanksgiving we are expecting about 20 people and are looking forward to it!
Helga Hedgewalker:
I think a time to reflect on gratitude is a beautiful and spiritual thing. The Thanksgiving Holiday itself is a time for my husband and me to visit our parents without religious differences coming into the conversation, and there’s no hurt feelings about whether or not to attend their church.
Beth: I always happily spend Thanksgiving with my family of origin. For as long as I can remember, my mother has hosted a huge Thanksgiving meal in her home for about 20 members of our extended family, replete with turkey, stuffing, my grandmother’s mashed potatoes and gravy, and plenty of pies. We take time out for our routines to eat, catch up on recent events, watch football (well, people who are bigger sports fans than me watch football, anyway), and just enjoy each others’ company. I look forward to it all year, and I am definitely also going to enjoy introducing my 9-month-old child to it for the first time this year.
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